Sister, where do you see me saying if his hands come near you you should obediently hold still and let him deface your memories?

If he starts to take his gloves off, then you have a reason to be concerned and you do whatever you think necessary to protect yourself. All I'm saying is don't attack him just for looking at you, or being near to you, just like people shouldn't attack you on the basis that you are technically capable of destroying buildings with your hands!